Homebody, by Theo Parish

     Homebody is a new graphic novel from author and illustrator Theo Parish. The memoir is an account of how Parish (they/them) came to accept themselves for who they are, from memories of being a child through teen years and college and into adulthood. It's a quick read, and the creative illustrations really add to the telling of their story. Growing up, Parish realized at points along the way that they were not boy or girl alone, but neither, and both. Parish calls this non-binary, but also refers to themselves as queer.

    Stories with such personal topics are getting more and more attention in the last year or two, but not for the right reasons. Groups of people around the country are working hard at eliminating stories such as Parish's, in the hopes that if the stories are not being written and read, somehow issues (and people) that include transgender, non-binary, LGBTQA+, or other similar identifications and acronyms will simply "go way". What I love about Homebody is that Parish is quite simply and honestly telling their story - of growing up knowing that the label they received at birth did not fit who they felt they really were. Like everyone everywhere in the world, as we grow we are discovering who we are! What we like, what our character is, who we want to be and what we want to do with ourselves and our lives. Parish's journey includes the search for gender identity. As a dog, mine didn't, but it is heartwarming to read about someone who is different than me, on a journey different from mine, but asking questions we all ask ourselves along our own journeys!

    I love the honesty of this book, and the creative ways Parish explains how understanding who we are is like finally coming home. They use a house in words and drawings to make the point that they are simply trying to find their own safe place, to be themselves and to find peace and joy in being who they are. I think that is something even this pup can understand and appreciate, which is what makes this book even more endearing. Parish is not asking the reader to be like them, but to be themselves, and celebrate who they are, and also who other people are. It's a simple message, on the surface, but one that causes a lot of division between people as well. I'm a dog, and I wag for most anyone! Maybe that's a lesson people can learn from me? 4 paws and a wag!