The Science of Being Angry is one of several book by author Nicole Melleby, but I haven't read any of them before this. I discovered this book only recently, and was a little surprised to see that it initially came out in 2022. The paperback version was released less than a year ago, which is why it probably crossed my radar this school year.
The title of this book is based on main character Joey, an 11-year-old who has anger issues that go beyond what most people experience when something happens that makes them mad, like stubbing a toe, for example. But for most people, that anger fades, usually as the frustration of the situation subsides. But Joey gets angry easily, and she acts on her anger, in as much as she doesn't have a single friend at school (outside of her two brothers). Her anger gets her family kicked out of their apartment complex, gets her suspended from school, physically harms one of her moms...and on it goes. Because of a science project at school based on genetics, Joey decides to find her biological father to see if he, too, has anger issues. Joey is desperate to discover where this anger comes from, why she can't seem to control it, and how to live without hurting everyone, especially the people she loves.
The first third of this book was pretty...meh. It reminded me of one of those books you get at the book fair that you haven't heard of before but that costs only a couple of dollars - less than the books you have heard of - so you buy it, read it, and...forget about it. Thankfully, Melleby gathered some steam from that point and I started feeling more a part of Joey's life and her spiderweb of emotions and troubles. In all, her story is really relatable as she tries to navigate something she has little control over, and has no idea why she is this way. She fears she is hurting the people she really loves, so one strategy she explores is creating distance from them, which doesn't make anything better, as you might imagine.
The book received starred reviews from two of the publications that I look to when I'm looking for my next good book, which surprised me a bit. Being Angry isn't bad - in fact it's pretty good! - but it's not a 5 paw book, as the starred reviews would suggest. Hmm, maybe you will like it more than I did. It is a good story, and worth a read, but I can only offer 3 paws and a wag.
I will watch for new releases from Melleby in the future, as I feel like the strengths she shows in this story will carry forward into perhaps a "fuller" book, start to finish. In the meantime, I'll keep watching for my realistic fiction superstars; Kate DiCamillo, Kwame Alexander, Jason Reynolds, A.S. King...
